“Timing isn’t everything, but it sure as hell is a lot.”

We’ve debated variations of that sentence often over the last year, questioning its weight as a dating cliche and the effect it’s had on our relationships woes. Today, we discuss how it’s woven its way into Jax’s current dating mire: basically, how when you’re dating three men, life is all about timing, for the good and the bad of it. She’s got some explaining to do, and some decisions to make.

Then we’re joined by burlesque dancer Velvetina Taylor, who talks to us about the spicy world of seduction. How did she fall into the romance of the field, how does she keep herself safe within it, and what can she teach us about how to tease and seduce in our own intimate little worlds?

Velvetina Taylor